Control
You control the outcome of the process. You do not sign a settlement agreement
until you are convinced that it will work for you.
Cost
Mediating your divorce will cost a fraction of the cost of fighting your case in the
courts. In mediation, you negotiate directly with the other party, with the help of an impartial mediator. Your attorney is not present and does not speak for you. Your focus is on cooperation, not competition.
In most cases, a mediated
Divorce will cost 50% to 95% less than a litigated divorce. Mediation is also more cost-effective for civil litigation. For example, a company that successfully mediates an
employee's wrongful discharge claim can spend $2000.00 instead of $100,000.00. A real estate developer who successfully mediates a construction defect Case can also save substantial time and money.
Timing
You set the pace for the mediation. The mediation sessions are scheduled at times
that are convenient for you. Most divorce mediations take four to eight sessions of two to three hours each. You will have time to carefully consider each decision you must make and to gather necessary
information and explore options until you have reached an agreement which meets your needs.
Privacy
Your mediation will take place in a private office, unlike court proceedings which
are open to the general public.
Custom-designed Agreements
Your agreement will be designed to fit your needs. You will resolve each issue in a manner which works for you and your family. Many people design agreements which are quite
different from what a judge might have ordered.
Maintaining Working Relationships
Mediation can help mend hurt feelings and pave the way for an ongoing relationship.